When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself

When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself

Right from comedians to business houses to social media giant Facebook , all have been the eye scanner of the people of India and actually the entire globe.

Although it’s very ironical that people hurl allegations of Ambani’s using Free internet revolution brought by Jio and announce to Quit Facebook on their timeline.

As a whole we Indians are very judgemental and I , being a part of that cohort , judged some of the people I care across recently.

You see, I really believe that underneath it all we are all good, kind and loving beings but because of the many challenges that life sends our way and because of the many struggles that we all face, some of us become bitter and resentful.

When that happens, we begin to project our own pain and suffering in the form of blame, judgment, and criticism onto the world around us.

But having said that I strongly believe in what Wayne Dyer said –
” When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”

Whenever I come in contact with highly judgmental people I do my best to put myself in their shoes and understand why they behave the way they do and why they feel the need to point the finger at those around them who have been trying to provide their best to their consumers or beneficiaries in any form.

I do understand some of them but honestly majority of them are beyond the thought and frankly the time now.

To conclude as I always say – Count your blessings from the loved ones while receiving the hatred and judgemental remarks from the bitter ones !

Period !

About the author: Dr. Tushar Mehta

An Orthopaedic Surgeon who is a blend of academic excellence and entrepreneurship with interest in all aspects of Bones and Joints. contach him at [email protected]

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